Consequence of not knowing how to refuse:
taking every others' demand
often losing one side for the other
Work like that, romance too
Ambiguous with multiple people at once
want everything, can't let anyone go, fear losing anyone
end with nothing
Surface many choices
actually delays the real match
Truly valuable things are scarce
attention, feeling, energy
easy to pick sesame and drop watermelon https://x.com/therealfreddyx/status/2022286421101572393