Actually I still occasionally want intimacy
Want a romance without a fixed outcome
Both with low emotional needs
Usually each doing their own thing
Maybe only once or twice a month needing company
More about animal instinct needs
Some things one person really can't finish alone
Premise: both share this consensus
Bottom line: exclusive
Both know there's no commitment
Accept no outcome
Just phased companionship
Maybe a buddy through hard times like exams or promotions
Still a probability problem
Don't know how to match
But this idea should be common
People who've figured out love vs self/career
are those who suffered enough to see clearly
Self and career always come first
at least at this stage
Love is seasoning
not a necessity
Taste occasionally
Low physical need too
No dependence on any object
Just occasional use so function doesn't atrophy
aligning with animal instinct
