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I want to become truly the same inside and out

From X · @therealfreddyx

Thoughts

I want to become truly the same inside and out
How others see me
and how I see myself
have a big Gap
Shrink that cognitive bias endlessly
That's my goal

I claim a noble kind heart
but neglect image management
so others can't quickly tell what kind of person I am
At least don't misjudge me
Is that a lack of wisdom?

Inside-out consistency isn't from the self view alone
Outside is public evaluation
Inside is self evaluation
How to unify public and self views?

I thought early of recording myself on video
Long-term filming thoughts as personal media
Appear on camera and speak, as feedback
See how I look in others' eyes
That's the real "outside"

Not knowing how others see me
is not knowing myself
There's a huge gulf
Really can't delay!
Use video recording as feedback
to build an iteration loop
A major topic for AI-native individual evolution

Optimize eyes, motion, expression, body language, emotion, etc.
For now video feedback is the method I have
It's not that I won't or can't
I just hadn't found the right feedback mechanism
or built an effective system loop