The line between a low-desire life
and an extreme penny-pinching life
Occasionally take a Didi premium car
Occasionally pay for a better experience
Don't attack yourself for that
Cut unnecessary spending
Resist consumerism
That's not making yourself suffer on purpose
It's treating money with more reason and wisdom
Not a one-cut becoming a miser who saves everywhere
That would just be another way of being caged by money
Underneath is that family wouldn't spend like this
so there's shame around spending